Monday, January 25, 2010

Bipolar Disorder

I have given a lot of thought to bipolar disorder over the last day, since I have been asked to blog on it. One thing that I have noticed about the disorder is that it is the new trendy diagnosis is psychiatry, along with Aspergers disorder. Ten years ago I noticed that ADHD also had its moment of fame. Many of my adult clients, who were children ten years ago were diagnosed with ADHD and it significantly and negatively altered their lives... Many of them didn't have ADHD, they were just boys! (See "Raising Cain", and excellent documentary on this phenomenon, PBS.com). I fear that in many ways a diagnosis of bipolar is following the same trend.

Maybe I should highlight my personal bias: I rarely diagnose people in my practice of psychotherapy. In many instances, I find diagnosing people with a disorder to be counterproductive, since many people will conform themselves to a diagnosis and become dependent on that diagnosis. For example, I had a client who was diagnosed by another practitioner to have borderline personality disorder. This client began to use this diagnosis as an excuse to avoid personal responsibility. I attempted to resolve the clients thinking errors of "I can't work anymore because of my severe problems with emotional regulation and distress intolerance". The client hadn't a problem working before the diagnosis, in fact, the client was a very successful accountant.

Anyways, back to bipolar. Although I feel clinicians should be rarely diagnose their clients, it is necessary, at times, to establish a good working treatment plan, but a clinician should focus on the treatment plan, not the diagnosis. When a client suffers from bipolar disorder, a good combination of medication and psychotherapy needs to be utilized. Oftentimes, someone suffering from this issue will only utilize one or the other, more often taking the medication route over the psychotherapy route. The combination needs to addressed, because a client who has bipolar often has a chaotic environment and disruptive interpersonal relational style.

I have also found, as with many other psychiatric disorders, bipolar is misunderstood. Although, I feel that it has recently been over-diagnosed, I also feel that many who truly have this disorder have minimized it. Here are some misconceptions:

1. Everyone has their ups and downs, so mine aren’t that serious.

Yes, everyone has good days and bad days, but when these ups and downs seriously interfere with your ability to work, relate to others and function effectively, it is advisable to seek out a psychiatrist.

2. Bipolar disorder is a mood disorder.

Half true. Bipolar disorder certainly affects mood, but it also affects cognition and the ability to perform mental tasks. Some days we can out-think Stephen Hawking. Other days we make Forrest Gump look like an intellectual.

3. Yes, but bipolar disorder is still a mood disorder.

Granted, but for most of us it is also part of a package deal that may include anxiety, substance and alcohol abuse and sleep disorders. Also, researchers are finding smoking guns linking the illness to heart disease, migraines and other physical ailments.

4. Bipolar disorder is characterized by mood swings ranging from severely depressed to wildly manic.

Not necessarily. Most people with bipolar disorder are depressed far more often than they are manic. Often, the manias are so subtle that they are overlooked by both patient and psychiatrist, resulting in misdiagnosis. People with bipolar disorder can also enter long periods of remission.

5. Mania is like being on top of the world—if you could only put it in a bottle and sell it.

You wouldn’t want to with most manias. True, some forms of mild mania are characterized by feelings of elation, but other types have road rage features built in. More severe mania turns up the heat, resulting in different kinds of out-of-control behavior that can ruin your career, relationships and reputation.

6. Bipolar disorder is caused by a chemical imbalance of the brain.

This is the simpler explanation—what you tell your family and friends. What you need to know is our genes, biology and life experience make us extremely sensitive to stress. Various stressors, such as personal relationships and financial worries, have the potential to trigger a mood episode if not effectively nipped in the bud.

7. Medications are all you need to combat bipolar disorder.

False. While medications are the foundation of treatment for bipolar disorder, recovery is problematic without a good lifestyle regimen (diet, exercise and sleep), effective coping skills and a support network. People with bipolar disorder also benefit from various forms of talking therapy and religious/spiritual practice.

I will make more comments on this in a future post... I've got to get some sleep!

2 comments:

Beck said...

Just now getting a chance to read this. And WOW! Thank you!

I have a sister-in-law who was diagnosed as bi-polar about 5 years ago, and I have a lot of guilt about her. I want to help, but am I really enabling? But then when I'm not helping, I'm not being a good christian. I also feel really anxious when I talk to her a lot because she has a way of sucking everyone into her problems and making you feel guilty if you don't agree with her. I have really withdrawn from associating with her much because she really stresses me out-- and I'm sure she feels terribly abandoned and that gives me guilt too. It's a terrible cycle.

Anyways, I wanted to say YES, A-FREAKING-MEN about conforming to the diagnosis and becoming dependant on it. You have described the phenomenon perfectly. With this sister-in-law, it seems her functionality in society has taken a HUGE nose-dive since her diagnosis. Everything she does (or doesn't do) seems to be because she is bi-polar. Wow, I really wish you were her therapist.

The person I really worry about in all this is my brother. I think he may suffer from depression from the sort of life he has to lead now, but it is masked by the overwhelming problems of his wife. If you have time someday, will you talk about how mental illness effects family and maybe things they can do to make life a little better?

Anyhoo, thanks Dr. Jade. This is good reading and quite helpful to me.

jade mangus said...

Unfortunately, many times, a loved one actually is enabling someone's behavior through their well intentioned desire to help. How does this occur?

Consider the role of the one suffering from the issue; their intention is to continue the using behavior at all costs. What better way to continue that use than to enlist someone to ‘help’ her. Without the enabler, the addict would have to start facing consequences of her behavior, and that might interfere with use continued use. The well intentioned enabler, out of love for the the person will ‘protect’ her from consequences and herself.

I watched an episode of the TV show “Intervention” where a mother gave her son, living at home, in his mid twenties money for Heroin, drove him downtown to buy the drugs and back home so he could use ’safely’.

She was afraid he might have uncomfortable withdrawal symptoms or get hurt in a dangerous part of town. That was one of the more dramatic examples of enabling I have seen. Are you lying, making excuses, and creating alibis for her? These are signs that you may have crossed the line from helping into enabling.

Enabling behavior usually starts out very slowly and gradually with trying to smooth things out with others outside the relationship or family. There is a desire to keep family secrets or not rock the boat. Part of enabling, just like active addiction, is denial. In the beginning the enabler will make all sorts of rationalizations and try to minimize the problem; ignore it and hope it goes away. This does not happen.

The vicious cycle of enabling works something like this. The person is being shielded from the negative consequences of their behavior. Since these consequences are not hitting home, they can continue the drama, or increase it. This means the enabler gets drawn even deeper into the web by having to deal with ever increasing chaos. .

Where and how does the madness end? For the enabler, though there may be fear and shame about the situation, it usually ends in anger. The enabler typically tries to hold things together and keeps the mounting frustration and anger bottled up…until one day the explosion occurs. They opt out of continuing the excuses.

A more commonly recommended solution is ‘detaching with love’. This type of detachment will be dealt with in a future article.

Paradoxically at this point, with the rug pulled out from her the chaotic one may encounter the crisis that will be motivation to seek help. Pain is not pleasant, but it is a wonderful motivator. People who seek help usually come from one of two camps. 1. They simply get sick and tired of being sick and tired. They get worn out. More commonly is the second option: 2. A crisis occurs that hits them with the force of a 2 x 4 in the side of the head.

I guess to put it simply: Healthy relationships are built on healthy boundaries